my perception

HII, last fortnight was good, college is fine, there was fest in my college “kolhaal” but i prefer to study at home rather attending it , last weekend i was out of the city at my maternal grand parents home and i had fun there with my cousins. and i am enjoying watching T20cricket of rebellious cricketer in ICL ..

just continuing from where i left in my last post, i discussed abut three points about life, now the fourth one, i wrote that the reason behind our sadness is the expectation now i am going to write about the other factor which also contribute to our sadness or the cause of our unhappiness, our possessive nature we today are very caring about our thing i mean we search our happiness in materialistic thing but these things are temporary and when they die there life gets our we tend to feel sad, i don’t mean we should not take care of our thing but we should not get too attach with them resulting in addiction of the thing and when that thing goes away we cry, i feel you got my point.

fifth point which i am going to write is about the secret behind the success and according to me Planing is the single most important thing behind the success according to me, if we don’t have any plan about our goal, we are hardly going to achieve it and the things done in haphazard way never result in good result, plan should be practical ,feasible and above all based on your weakness and strength. most of us most of the time fail to to make good plan, but as we get to know more about ourselves the planning becomes easy. At this juncture i would just like to tell you the famous saying of swami Chinmayananda ” Plan your work and work out your plan”.

sixth point, i feel success and failure both the thing don’t occur over a night they occur gradually we don’t realize, that every day small bit effort can lead you such a big success and no efforts to great disaster, what i actually mean is we mostly neglect these small contribution and efforts and on D - day they make the difference between winner and failure…
with this i want to end the serious talk

today while going through the newspaper i got a bit annoyed the reason being the excessive advertisement in it i was trawling for good article and in between the full page advertisement
eating away the quality of the newspaper. i feel they should make two section of news paper where there is only news and good article and in other adds and other things, but i know they cant do that.

first what i feel we always have great desire means i want to be like this , i want that car , i want to earn a Lott and etc but many a people rather most of them fail to achieve why? because i feel there is deserve and desire funda means what ever you desire wont come to you until or unless u deserve that or in other words your efforts are strong enough for that thing .

secondly, why we feel sad , i feel sad because of expectation, it is very simple for example take he case of our Indian cricket team when ever Sachin scores run for India we feel good but when he not we feel sad because we have high expectation for him that he will definitely make runs and when and underdog player from whom we have no expectation if even don’t perform we don’t feel bad and if he does we feel happy and have higher expectation for next time. similarly in our personal relationship we have lots of expectation from our partner and if those are not fulfilled we feel disappointed so i feel if you want to be happy no need to expect any thing from any body , if by chance they do something for you, you are in win win situation.

thirdly, i feel we always busy in thinking about the irrelevant things means which are nothing to deal with us , for example whats going in match , what India should do, will that movie will be hit ..why i don’t have good hairs etc , though the last one is concerned to you but you can hardly change it , and in this thinking we loose our focus on our work , and fail to deliver our best .
so i feel we should not think and waste our focus , best think to avoid thinking is to get completely soaked in the work by making the work more interesting.

i have various other things to discuss here, related to all these but that is for next post till then enjoy this and let me know what you feel about my writing whats your opinion about all this.onething more i would like to tell you about my net friend i got to know about her through orkut and she want me to write about her shweta (name is changed) you are very sweet, caring don’t get worried about the future , i know you have bright future just carry on effort ..take care ….

some quotations you may like

“Energy and persistence conquer all things.”

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.”

“You must be the kind of man who can get things done. But to get things done, you must love the doing, not the secondary consequences.”

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